The Role of Reciprocity in Interviews

by Strategic College Admissions

One critical aspect of college interviews is the concept of reciprocity. This means that the interview is a two-way street. Students should not feel like they are merely being “grilled” by the interviewer. Instead, they should see it as an opportunity to ask questions that matter to them and gain insights into the school's environment, culture, and student life.

Encourage your teen to be proactive in these interviews. They should come prepared with thoughtful questions about academics, campus activities, and admissions requirements. This approach not only helps them gather valuable information but also demonstrates their genuine interest in the school.

Preparing for College Interviews

Preparation is key to making the most of college interviews. Here are some tips to help your teen prepare:

1. Research the School: Understand the school's mission, values, programs, and culture. This will help tailor their responses and questions to align with the school's ethos.

2. Practice Common Questions: While each interview is unique, certain questions are frequently asked. Practice responses to questions about strengths, weaknesses, academic interests, extracurricular activities, and career goals.

3. Prepare Questions: Encourage your teen to prepare a list of questions about the school. These could range from specifics about academic programs to campus life and support services.

4. Dress Appropriately: First impressions matter. Dressing appropriately shows respect for the interview process and the institution.

5. Be Authentic: Authenticity resonates with interviewers. Encourage your teen to be themselves, share their true interests and experiences, and express why they are interested in the school.

When Do Interviews Happen?

Timing can vary. Some schools offer interviews before the application is submitted, while others might schedule them post-application. It's important to check each school's specific requirements and timelines. Schools typically release dates for possible interviews on their websites, so make sure to stay updated.

Parents, encourage your teenagers to embrace the interview process as a valuable opportunity for growth and self-discovery. By preparing thoroughly and approaching interviews with confidence and curiosity, they can make a lasting impression on admissions committees.